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Cooking with my French Husband: French Kitchen Secrets

by Pronoti Baglary

Right from the outset of our relationship, cooking has been my husband’s love language. The first dish he ever cooked for me was coq au vin (chicken braised in wine) over the small stove of an Airbnb in Nice. Not only was it one of the best meals I’d ever had, it laid the blueprints of our future stay-at-home dates, with him cooking and me eating. Since then, his cooking repertoire has expanded to include many other French and, when he feels particularly daring, Indian dishes.  

Left-Parisians walk and cycle along a canal. Right- Jarret de porc is shown in a white Staub pan.
Top: A Parisian table by @thecooksatelier / Dinner on the terrace by @toits_de_paris.
Above: Canal Saint-Martin by @lostncheeseland / Jarret de porc by @cat_in_france

As someone who enjoys cooking as much as eating, I have spent a lot of time watching him cook, usually because I would be in the background providing the running commentary and entertainment (he might debate this point). As an Indian, some of the typical French cooking techniques and ingredients he uses on a daily basis have been a revelation for me. Below are a few of these French kitchen habits that surprised me and which I have now learned to embrace wholeheartedly. 

Left- A white bowl of beef and pasta with vegetables. Right- The Eiffel Tower peaks out from behind a Parisian building.
Daube Provençale by @frenchcookacademy / The Eiffel Tower by @emilytaubert

Who is afraid of lard? Not the French!

Fat is by no means something that is used specifically by the French, but it is the quantity of said fat that is consumed here generally that stumped me. The secret ingredient for many tasty French dishes turns out to be, you guessed it, fat. Whether it is fries cooked in duck fat, the liberal chunks of salted butter in jambon beurre, the creamy goodness of sablés au beurre (butter cookies) or even eating just cheese with side-dishes for dinner (like raclette, mont d’or, or camembert): in France, butter, oil or grease are used liberally, not as a means to an end, but sometimes as the end in themself. 

I have come to learn that many French households have a jar of rendered fat from a particularly juicy piece of duck, goose or chicken, in their fridge. In my husband’s case, he guards his lardon with the particular fervent enthusiasm only the French have when it comes to food. I might have made the mistake of accidentally throwing it out once or twice in the beginning, but suffice to say, I won’t ever do that again. 

Left-cheese flows over a bowl of French onion soup. Right- building of pastel colors are shown in the Latin Quarter.
French onion soup by @littlefrenchiesd / The Latin Quarter by @julieaucontraire

Bouillon cubes are the ultimate kitchen hack

Bouillon cubes are dehydrated and compressed meat or vegetable stock which can be added to flavor sauces, broths, and basically anything to uplift any dish that could use some umami. The invention of bouillon cubes was groundbreaking for the food industry. It is however still unclear if it was the French, the British or the Swiss who first invented it.

These cubes are an integral part of French cooking and they are the ultimate cheat for cooking something that tastes like the flavors might have taken hours to develop, but actually comes from a tiny square of powdered stock. There are still dishes that my husband would use only homemade stock for, like his famed soupe à l’oignon or French onion soup, but the cubes are perfect for preparing delicious foods on a short notice.

Left- A flower shop exterior is shown with wicker baskets containing colorful flowers. Right- Knives are lined up on a kitchen counter near the cooking range.
De Pere En Fils by @thetangledtomato / A French country home kitchen by @cat_in_france

With roux, you will never have a weak sauce again

Whether it is a pie, a tart, a lasagna or a sauce, there is nothing that the humble roux cannot improve. It is a mix of flour with a variety of fat, usually butter, which can be cooked to varying degrees to produce the kind of consistency you desire, according to what you would be using it for. 

As someone quite unfamiliar with French cooking, I was incredibly impressed the first time my husband whipped it up. I even requested him to make it from my parents on our next trip to India. The shine has since worn off, as I have realized that most people familiar with the basics of cooking can whip it up. But nevertheless, it makes me feel like a fine French chef every time I successfully manage to make one. 

Left-A traditional French kitchen is shown. Right- A wicker basket filled with fresh vegetables sits on a table.
A traditional French kitchen by @cat_in_france / A market basket by @frenchcookacademy

Seasonal produce only 

My husband refuses to eat anything that is out of season, no matter how abundant it may be at the supermarket. Though annoyed at first, I too am now a convert to this seasonal approach to eating. You can find the same variation in many French restaurants who change their menus seasonally. 

One exception to this is tomatoes, which in our household, are one of the most eaten vegetables. According to my husband, there is only one way to eat off-season tomatoes: canned. Coming from a culture where fresh food is prioritized above every other kind of food, it seemed extremely counter-intuitive to me to choose canned tomatoes over fresh ones. But after much research about canning techniques and the opinions of imminent chefs, the expert verdict actually concurs with my husband! So, when in doubt, good canned tomatoes are a better alternative to offseason tasteless ones. 


Just like I have come to appreciate and incorporate these French kitchen habits in my life, my husband has done the same with typical Indian cooking habits, including learning to make masalas (spice mix) from scratch, picking up hacks to make soft rotis (Indian flatbread) or perfecting his chai (boiled milky tea)! Being from two different but equally rich culinary traditions, we are grateful to be creating a home where both cultures can live and breathe in harmony.

Left- A hand opens the curtains to shown a view of traditional French buildings. Right- An uncooked fish sits nest to a pot filled with stock.
A view of Paris by @emilytaubert / Fresh fish and stock by @frenchcookacademy

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Left- A man and woman sit on a bench looking into the Paris sunset. Right- Fresh baguettes are piled on top of each other
A couple in Place de la Concorde by @javiernapi / Baguettes by @aparisianmoment

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Pronoti Baglary

Pronoti is from a small town in Assam, India, and now lives in Paris. Having studied culture as a student of Sociology, she is interested in everything it entails: languages, arts, literature and technologies. Her favourite French word is Flânerie, the verb for strolling sans a precise destination. In Paris, she spends her time walking just for pleasure, and discovering the many quaint places and stories strewn across this beautiful city. View Pronoti Baglary's Website

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