Valentine’s Day may just be the most divisive holiday out there. While many of those with an amoureux may love the opportunity to profess their love in person (and usually on Instagram too), it can be a tough day for those who recently went through a breakup, are spending yet another Valentine’s Day alone, or just plain don’t care about a seemingly arbitrary capitalist holiday.
Whether you’re a hopeless romantic or a cynic, here are six things you can do to make Valentine’s Day suck less:
1. Be your own Valentine
I know, I know. It sounds cheesy. But if you’re the kind of person who has a lot of love to give with no one to give it to, give it to yourself! Buy yourself the flowers and chocolate (though maybe wait for the after-Valentine’s-Day sales on the 15th instead), treat yourself to shopping in the Marais, binge watch a new show on Netflix, or have your own spa day at home. If you find yourself longing for a gift or gesture from someone else, take control of the situation and do it yourself!
2. Show love to your friends
Who said you can only celebrate Valentine’s Day if you have a significant other? More often than not, it’s the support from my friends that gets me through tough days. On a holiday that focuses so much on romantic love, why not share the platonic love for your girlfriends?
Thanks to Parks & Recreation, Galentine’s Day has become an unofficial holiday the day before Valentine’s Day to celebrate your girlfriends. Host an apéro filled with wine, cheese, and lots of chocolate to celebrate the love for the amazing women (and men!) in your life (Covid-19 permitting, of course).
3. Have a romantic movie marathon
Can’t make it to Paris this year? As the reigning City of Love, there are a plethora of romantic films set here in Paris. “Amélie”(2001), “Midnight in Paris”(2011), “LOL”(2008), “Paris, je t’aime” (2006), and many many more will have you in your feels and longing for your next trip to Paris.
4. Go see a psychic
Wondering when it’s your turn to fall madly in love or what the next few years will hold for you? Write down a few questions and consult with a psychic! At the very least, you’ll leave with a memorable Valentine’s Day story.
Don’t believe in psychics? Try out astrology apps like Co-Star and The Pattern. They use your full birth chart rather than just your sun sign, which gives a more accurate representation of your love life. Get a few friends to download the apps as well and you can compare your personality traits and compatibility.
5. Make your own Valentine’s Day cards
Channel your elementary school days and write cards to your loved ones. In a year where distance has kept us apart from family and friends, the art of a handwritten letter will surely be appreciated. Let your loved ones know how much you care about them, today and every day by sending your own Valentine’s Day cards.
6. See the sights in Paris
While much of Paris may still be shut down, the spirit of love is still alive in the city. Take a walk through some of Paris’ most romantic landmarks like Jardin des Tuileries, Montmartre’s Mur des je t’aime, Pont des Arts, and finish off the day by watching the sunset by the Seine. There really is nothing more beautiful than watching the sunset over the Eiffel Tower!
Whether you’re spending the day alone, with your significant other, or with friends and family, make sure to send love to someone in your life. The lingering effects of lockdown and curfew might still be hard on loved ones, so this year is about spreading the love more than ever. What are your plans for Valentine’s Day? We’d love to hear your ideas below!
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