Eating alone in Paris, like this woman sat at a bistro table seen through the window.

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Before I moved to Paris, I was afraid of eating alone, at a table by myself, in public, for anyone to see. I have no idea why the idea was so terrifying, but I’m sure I’m not the only person who has ever felt that way.

Eating alone in Paris, like this woman in a floral blue dress at a restaurant tucking into cake.Carin Olsson

It wasn’t until last year during a warm spring day in May that I found myself in this completely new and quite intimidating situation. But to get past your fears you have to face them, right? So that’s what I did. I sat down at Coutume Café and had brunch, all by myself. Sure, the first few minutes were a bit awkward. And no, it did not help that the two gentlemen at the table beside me giggled every time they looked my way. Do I have something on my face? Did the spinach get stuck between my teeth? Did I pronounce ‘jus de fruits’ completely wrong?

Where to eat alone in Paris, like this woman wearing a hat and sitting outside at a bistro table with her notebook.TOF alias christophe hue

They probably meant no harm, but when you’re pushing outside of your comfort zone you tend to notice (and in my case over-analyze) everything going on around you just a little bit more than you normally would.

After surviving the first awkward minutes at my table for one (and checking on the teeth-spinach situation in my pocket mirror), I started to relax and actually enjoy myself. My eyes wandered from the waitress taking orders from the table in front of me, to the barista behind the bar and then to the gentlemen next to me chatting rapidly in French. It felt nice. When you’re alone you have no choice but to take it all in, and hopefully even enjoy it. You can’t hide behind conversations or miss the people passing by.

Eating alone in Paris, like this woman at a cafe, reading her book.

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Paris is a great city to start your dining alone adventure. Every time I pay a visit to my favorite restaurants here in Paris, I always see a couple people enjoying their meal (a three course meal with wine that is) tout seuls. Even if they’re dining alone they treat themselves to a fantastic lunch or dinner out.

A Paris café terrace in summer with colorful rattan bistro chairs lined by leafy plants (left). Aerial view of a Paris cafe sidewalk terrace in the sun, with red tables and chairs (right).Making Magique

Le Comptoir du Relais has a fabulous terrasse with a view of people strolling the streets of Saint-Germain, and their wine bar next door, L’Avant Comptoir, is perfect if you’re in the mood to chat with a couple of new people hanging out at the bar. L’Atelier de Joël Robuchon and Frenchie’s wine bar also seem to be made for people looking to enjoy a meal on their own. Grab a table along the bar at L’Atelier de Joël Robuchon or at the kitchen window at Frenchie’s wine bar and enjoy the talented chefs in action – you get an amazing meal plus great entertainment.

The best bistros for eating alone in Paris, like this cozy place where a woman is taking a picture of her food, as seen through the window.

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I would also suggest finding a quiet corner at Hôtel Amour or Colorova and ordering a pot of tea and one of those gorgeous pastries while disappearing into a great book. Merci’s Used Book Café also feels like it was designed with exactly this type of purpose in mind… Dining options for une personne in Paris are endless!

Eating alone in Paris, like this woman at a bistro, whose reflection we can see in the mirror above the bar.

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It has taken me a couple of practice rounds to get comfortable dining on my own and, depending on my surroundings, it’s still a little hard from time to time. But practice makes perfect, and I am wholly dedicated to mastering the art of solo dining. If you’re just starting out too, here are some tips to help you get started:

Where to eat alone in Paris, like this blonde woman seen from the back, through a bistro window with reflections of bikes parked nearby.

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Bring something to read
Hiding behind a book or an interesting magazine can feel a bit safer and is a great way to start if you’re not completely comfortable with the the idea of eating alone. Some restaurants and cafés often have a few newspapers lying around as well.

There are lots of places to eat alone in Paris, like this bookshop where a woman is working on her laptop.

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Look for WiFi
If you find yourself without reading material and still want a safety blanket, WiFi is your friend. Surf the web, read articles, and keep up with your favorite blogs while enjoying your meal alone. Café Craft (a freelancer’s paradise), La Cantine, Kooka Boora and Merce and the Muse are just a couple of the many cafés and restaurants that offer free WiFi in Paris today.

Eating alone in Paris is easy as there are plenty of cozy bistros like this one, with a blonde woman in a white vest, eating a salad, who we can see through the window with the word 'Paris' pasted on it.

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Dine with a view
If you feel comfortable enough to skip the book, I suggest finding a place with a view that’s easy on the eyes. Let your eyes feast on the passing people, the spectacular architecture or the chefs working in the kitchen. Head to the Saint Régis or the Nemours if you’re in the mood for a glass of wine, or to Le 43 for a cocktail. For a meal, try the Georges at the Centre Pompidou, and Carette by the Trocadero for a couple of macarons to go with your afternoon coffee.

Be creative
I’ve found myself many times without that back-up book, magazine or view to keep me occupied. When that happens, I resort to my immediate surroundings: eavesdrop on the people behind you (come on, everybody does it), make up your own stories about what people are talking about, where they’re from and what they do. Think Steve Carell and Tina Fey in the movie “Date Night”; if you have the imagination, you’re guaranteed a fun night by yourself.

Eating alone in Paris like this elderly man reading the paper flat on a table lit by a spotlight.

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Enjoying Paris by myself is now one of my favorite things to do, so don’t be afraid to give it a go. You never know what might happen!

Related links:

  • Want to find out more about Hotel Amour? Have a look at HiP Paris’ previous article about this lovely hotel
  • At Coutume Café you can finally get some good coffee in Paris, as well a few other places listed in this article
  • Le 43 is a great hotel bar, we’ve listed a few other ones that you need to pay a visit to while in Paris

Written by Carin Olsson for the HiP Paris Blog. Looking for a fabulous vacation rental in Paris, London, Provence, or Tuscany? Check out Haven in Paris.


Carin Olsson

Carin Olsson left both her job and family back in Sweden to pursue her longtime dream of moving to Paris. A big passion for food, sweets, the city itself and photography resulted in her blog, Paris in Four Months, where she shares her time in the city of light.


  1. Hi Carin
    Late to the party because I’ve only recently returned from a solo trip to Paris and London (husband couldn’t get away). Often lunched alone in nice restaurants. The staff looked after me beautifully everywhere – was never placed at a bad table. It’s great to enjoy the ambience and to people watch rather than reading a book and missing the experience. At Le Grand Colbert I was seated in an area where there were three men all dining alone at separate tables. The older man next to me was an artist from St Remy. We struck up a conversation and chatted and laughed through the meal. At the end he gave me his card and asked me to bring my husband to visit him next time I’m in St Remy. For me, dining solo on all these occasions was a pleasurable experience and allowed me to observe so much of the places and the people and to really enjoy the moment. Much as I love going out with my husband or friends I realised that if I’d been absorbed in conversations with them I’d have missed a lot. Best wishes, Pamela

  2. What a nice article Carin! I just found this site, as I will be making a solo 2-week trip to Europe from the USA, and will be stopping in Paris. I, for one, savor the time I have alone, and some of the best moments in my life, have happened while I was going solo. Love my family & friends to death, but I do love that time when I am just with myself, taking in all life has to offer.

  3. This topic is quite interesting. It takes a lot of time (especially for a French)to eat out alone.
    I started it a few months ago and now I LOVE it. Mostly for lunch, on Saturdays (I still find it kinda creepy for dinner time). I can go where I want, eat what I want.
    Besides checking internet and reading a book, I like observing what’s going on around me – I don’t mean spying right. You feel like time is stopping and it’s like your senses are more opened.
    Honestly it’s something to try!

  4. Beautiful Pics!! This is really a great post. Paris is a perfect place to enjoy the vacations.

  5. Great theme. Yes, as you get used to it you can
    enjoy it. It takes me centuries but suddenly oooh, I could do it. I’m quite proud. But I would never
    go out alone having dinner at Ritz.

  6. I’m so glad I found this article – after a series of events (how vague) I will be in Paris alone next weekend and the only thing that worried me was eating alone. Thanks for the tips!

  7. Out of necessity I started dining alone and now I’ve grown to love it. I have found that from time to time you need to be a little firm with waiters who try to seat you in the corner, by the loo or the kitchen door/servery and even once at a very poorly lit table under some stairs by the coat rack. I pointed out a small table in the centre of the restaurant where I would sit to enjoy my meal. They happily placed me there and I had one of the most enjoyable dining experiences of my life.
    In Italy the waiters will look over your shoulder for the other member of your party and then when discovering you are ‘solo’ they will flirt and fuss over you in a way that cannot fail to make you smile.
    In Venice, when having an afternoon glass of wine by myself in a small bar, I was swept up by a group of locals on a bar crawl and I experienced one of the best parties I’ve ever been to.
    In Paris I met a man who was going to visit his adult son for the first time in 20 years on the eve of the son’s marriage. He was nervous about being out of place, of wanting to present himself well and so at his invitation we spent a wonderful afternoon purchasing him some new clothes to wear to this very important engagement.
    Go it alone, take a book for backup, don’t forget to look up and see the world and chat to people who are daring enough to initiate a conversation. You’ll have far more fun that you expect.

  8. Eat alone. At the bar. With a book. You will be sure to meet new and interesting people. People you would never meet if you were not eating alone, at the bar – with a book! Being alone often opens so many doors for new encounters we would never have if we were in a group. Enjoy and bon appetit!

  9. Great post, Carin. In America, we are given the message that if you are out alone, at a movie or for a meal, that you have no friends – an awful prospect when you’re still school age. When I was still school-aged I idolized anyone who had the self-confidence to go solo. I’m now that person too. So are you.

  10. I have grown to love eating out alone, but I must agree it does take a lot of getting used to!…I do always have a book as a back-up though!…xv

  11. I love this article! I’m a huge proponent of dining solo. Partly because I naturally eat incredibly slowly, and when I dine with a group I tend to feel rushed. There should be absolutely no shame in dining alone, either, especially in Paris. It’s a great way to slow down and chill out and have some time to yourself while enjoying the best of what the city can offer.

  12. not one foto shows an actual tavern or restaurant ..
    which is good ……
    eating during midday is also much easier than dining at night in a restaurant alone…
    small plates / cold plate at a cafe or bistro very nice ..
    daytme eating makes it easier ….

  13. What a great post Carin! I’ve been a flight attendant for over 15 years so exploring and dining solo has always been something I’ve done. The crew doesn’t always go out together. It did make me nervous at first too. Paris is perfect to experience the city by yourself and so many places to dine solo comfortably. Great list of tips!

  14. This is something I struggle with and have tried very hard to push through. Still need the book or magazine to feel comfortable. I have never been alone in Paris but I have seen many people dining alone in Paris. One in particular in a bistro in the Marais, a woman had set herself up on Sunday lunch with a big newspaper and a few course meal. It amazed me how relaxed she seemed, she was even served coffee and cake and didn’t take a bite or sip for some time. Indeed she seemed to languish and draw out the experience! It is not something you see a lot of in Australia but is so much more common in France- so Paris to me is a perfect place to practice the art of solo dining xx Corrina Tough

  15. Hello Carin. I’m really glad you posted this!Dining solo, once mastered, can be really enjoyable. I especially a fan of eating at the restaurant bar. My first trip to Paris was a solo one, and so I made sure to grab a spot at the bar whenever possible. It’s the perfect spot to observe your surroundings – the food, the drink, the waitstaff, customers – and it makes you feel like part of the action as opposed to alone and on the sidelines. In Paris, my most memorable experience was at Grazie, which was so welcoming and convivial that I actually went twice on my trip:

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