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My Perfect Day in Paris with Ajiri Aki – Madame de la Maison

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Ajiri Aki, the creator of Madame de la Maison, is seated in a chair in the middle of a room full of decors, flowers, and other ornaments.
Top and above: @madamedelamaison

Ajiri Aki is the visionary behind Madame de la Maison, an online boutique offering stylish antiques and linens for entertaining. A true citizen of the world, Ajiri was born in Nigeria, grew up in Austin, then moved to NYC where she worked in fashion. Love ultimately brought her to Paris, where she now resides with her Swiss husband and children.

Missing the joyful fellowship of friends and loved ones back home, Ajiri hosted get-togethers to connect with expats and locals in Paris. “Gathering is truly in my DNA as a Nigerian because we love getting together. Growing up, we always had guests over after church and met up with other Nigerian families every Saturday.” The love of entertaining, combined with her passion for antiques and flea markets, are the sparks from which Madame de la Maison was born. She recently shared her thoughts on effortless French entertaining, what her perfect day in Paris looks like, and Parisian joie de vivre.

Left: Ajiri Aki is sitting in front of a French provincial gate, wearing a black dress and a wooden hat. Right: A photo of vintage plates in white and teal blue.
@madamedelamaison

The French entertain so effortlessly. What are their secrets?

“Most French people aren’t trying to recreate fancy recipes or present themselves as the perfect home cook. You won’t find any ‘Stepford-style’ hosts or hostesses trying to impress you with perfection… The emphasis is more on everyone enjoying themselves. The majority of French households I’ve been invited to have cabinets with antiques or modern serving dishes they love, and they just set a table, mixing and matching what they have. The meal is usually simple, but we spend long hours around the table drinking and chatting.”

Ajiri, her husband, and their two children are hanging out in their beautiful Parisian apartment living room.
The Socialite Family

What does a perfect day in Paris look like for you?

“Well, I love waking up and just chilling at home, staring at Paris out the window from my bed. I would sit and read with one of my antique tea cups and a tray in my bed. (Reality check: my children would probably have to be silenced with morning cartoons or off at school for me to quietly enjoy this moment.)

Then, if it’s a weekend, I would head off to a local flea market—or something bigger like the Puces de Saint-Ouen or Vanves—with some girlfriends. I would have a boozy lunch at one of my fave restaurants like Le Mary Celeste, Ober Mamma, or Bonhomie. I tend to like places where the team gives you that feel-good vibe, and there is a lot of energy in the space. If I had the kids, then I am still about the vibes but need space, so perhaps pizzas at Pavillion Puebla or seafood at Dock B in Pantin. After lunch and in need of a stroll to walk off the food, I would wander the Canal St.-Martin and maybe head over to Thanx God I’m a VIP to see what vintage dresses are waiting for me there.

As for the evening, I like meeting friends at my place or theirs for an apéro before we head out to dinner. Some of my favorite dinner spots right now are Le Cheval d’Or, Koko Bistro, Le Servan, and Double Dragon. But if I am being honest, I never jam pack days, and need a lot of leisure time to loaf around before or after any of these activities.”

Left: Ajiri is posed in a Parisian balcony in her beautiful yellow and blue floral dress. Right: A picture of a bulbous glass container.
Left: @anne.lapina / Right: @madamedelamaison

What do you love the most about Paris?

“I love that Paris feels like slow life in the big city. The pace feels much slower here than my life in New York. Parisians take time to just be! People take proper breaks for coffee and lunch, to chat, read, catch up with friends, or just chill. I love how their idea of joie de vivre reminds you to enjoy simple little things in everyday life. I also really love how much Paris has changed me, and taught me to enjoy my own life more.”

Left: An outdoor dining table in the French countryside, adorned with flowers. Right: A set of vintage silver and gold cutlery with beautiful design.
@madamedelamaison

Ajiri’s Perfect Day in Paris Addresses

Left: A dinner plate with cotton napkin, vintage cutlery, fresh flowers, and branches of eucalyptus leaves. Right: Ajiri is in her Parisian balcony, wearing a yellow and white printed dress.
@madamedelamaison

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Left: Ajiri is in a parc, doing a picnic, under cherry blossom trees. Right: A set of 4 golden teaspoons in a beige ceramic cup.
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2 comments on “My Perfect Day in Paris with Ajiri Aki – Madame de la Maison

What a lovely Parisian life sounds interesting and charming.

Hi, I love to collect feves and I checked out the two markets Ajiri mentioned when I was in Paris in January 2020. I wonder if she has any local flea markets she would recommend where I might find some the next time I am in Paris. I love the chocolate almond croissants at the bakery right next to the Vanves Metro exit.
Thank you.
Iman

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